Wedding in Colorado, black tie optional

I am in TN and am attending a Catholic wedding at 2 PM with my husband, black tie optional. We already have a tux and now after reading some of the other posts I am afraid that is not appropriate. When I asked the bride about what he should wear she alluded that it should be black tie. I also.... [Read more]

Money or registry?

we plan to buy a house shortly after getting married...we would like to let our guests know that we would like money for this, but what way is appropriate?

we also would like to set up a small registry for the bridal shower, and for people who feek more comfortable giving gifts than money, we.... [Read more]

Is there an elegant way to ask for money instead of gifts?

My fiancé and I would like to ask for money instead of gifts. We don't really need anything extra for the house, and the few things we could ask for is not enough to fill up an entire registry. Our current apartment is too small to fit anymore stuff. We would prefer to receive money to put.... [Read more]

Helping my sister plan wedding

I have a dilema. I am the Maid of Honor for my sister's wedding. We are from Wyoming but live in Colorado. I have a 3 year old daughter and a baby on the way. At the time of the wedding their ages will be 4 and 6 months. The wedding is in Wyoming so we will have to travel to the wedding. My sister.... [Read more]

Alerting Couple to Gift to Bank Account

I have no sense of wedding etiquette at all. If I want to donate to a bank account that the couple has set up for the purchase of their new home, how do I let them know that I've done that? There is information on their wedding web site about where to donate, but I don't understand how they are.... [Read more]